I was thinking a what if...
What if your best friend, that you've known since you were a little kid, came out of the closet and admited he/she was gay? Would you stop being friends with them? Would you accept them like before?
My point of view, I have problem with anyone being gay...it's your life. I'm not homophobic and I couldn't just stop my friendship because of their sexual orientation that they aren't really involving me in. Most friends know other friends boundaries so I would think they know not to try anything with me being that I'm straight (and that goes for most gay people in general).
Well...what do you guys think?
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Just act like it's nothing....keep the friendship the same.
Yeah, my sister did that. Now we check out chicks together. Be kinda weirded out if any of the guys I knew turned out gay. I just seem to have a bunch of bi/lesbian friends.
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No problem at all Killa. A good friend of mine did almost that. We were hanging out one day and he comes right out and says hes gay and would understand if I didn't want to be his friend anymore. I told him as long as does't try to get me personaly into bed I didn't care what he did. We remained friends for years but drifted apart due to my moveing followed by him leaving the state. Were still friends tho and we talk every once in a while.
Don't let it bother you. As long as hes not hitting on you what does it matter?
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I've known my best friend for longer than I can remember. Our moms had us hanging out shortly after I was born. I moved away from her when I was 5, but we still kept in touch and saw each other several times every year. We're 24 and 25 now, and still keep in touch as best we can.
She came out to me last year before she moved out of state, and I have absolutely no problem with it. I still consider her my "best sister", no matter what her sexuality.
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Just as long as he is not hitting on you, it's all good.
and just think of how many gay jokes you can make at him
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It happened to me.. A good friend in HS came out to me when we were watching a hockey game (of all things).
It didn't strike me as odd, I said well that's cool. I asked if he told his folks, he said no, we talked a little bit about it. I support friends.. I wouldn't short a relationship because of what he does with another consenting adult behind closed doors. He didn't come on to me, I didn't rib him about being gay.
It's more about respect and friendship than anything... if you drop a friend because of that little detail, it just goes to show you're about as shallow as a puddle.
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i came out about being bi to my best friend from first grade. we were 18 when i told her. i figure i could trust her, of all people.
she has since completely denied that i ever existed.
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/\ /\ /\ THAT is BS!! I'm sorry to hear it fenix you seem like a great person to me I could care less what you do in your bedroom. Its a shame your "friend" couldn't see it.
Oh well her lose. I don't hate you and sure noone here does either.
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jackalope wrote:I don't hate you and sure noone here does either.
i don't give a rat's ass if people hate me...but if they hate me for that, then i hope to hell they live somewhere that has a gay population of 0...otherwise, they might as well curl up and die now, because those of alternative sexualities aren't going away.
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NJHK (Sexual Chocolate) wrote:I was thinking a what if...
What if your best friend, that you've known since you were a little kid, came out of the closet and admited he/she was gay? Would you stop being friends with them? Would you accept them like before?
My point of view, I have problem with anyone being gay...it's your life. I'm not homophobic and I couldn't just stop my friendship because of their sexual orientation that they aren't really involving me in. Most friends know other friends boundaries so I would think they know not to try anything with me being that I'm straight (and that goes for most gay people in general).
Well...what do you guys think?
Can you imagine having a big secret that eats you up every day because if anyone knew, you would be afraid you would get beat up, you would be ignored, made fun of, everything cruel would or could happen to you. If a friend came out to you, you should honor the fact they trust you enough to share that secret with you, wanting some understanding knowing their best friend doesnt care and will accept them anyways because they are afterall best friends.
If they hit on you haha well just think of it as a compliment
If its major flirting well.. something is wrong with that kid and has to learn to use his/her gaydar because most str8 people dont go for the same sex as you know.
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Friends are friends regardless of who they sleep with.
Its none of my business or concern what they do in their bedroom, as the same with me and what I do.
I would never treat someone differently because of their sexual orientation.
GOOD GRIEF fenix whats up? Another bad day? Damn I was agreeing with you guys that its a shame.
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uh
i'm not disagreeing with you.
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i will say, though...there's someone on another forum who's pointing fingers at me, calling me a sinner, because i look at/appreciate women. he's PROBABLY a recently converted christian...or he's just one of those types who really has no concept of how the world works.
after a few days of deliberating, all i can say to this idiot is "judge not lest ye be judged" - but that's bringing a brand new can of worms into the deal that doesn't really need to be brought up here.
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Ok my bad! sorry then. Do not worry about what some bibble thumpin wack job says about you. Remember the 12 appostles? they would bathe together and wash each other. That sounds kinda like homo stuff to me.
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Ask a Christian if they believe in all the bible. if yes then
Ask them if they believe being gay is a sin. if yes then
ask them if they like shellfish. if yes then
tell them they cant say anything about homosexuality as they are sinning themselves as it states in the bible that eating shelled food (ie. shellfish) is a sin.
ionno i dont meet many bible thumpers that preach out that being gay is wrong, unless they are in the closet themselves and think preaching makes them str8 or something.
When you think about it, people that tolerate or jsut plainly dont care, dont say anything or support the cause for awareness. Those that shout out against it are afraid of something, perhapps they had some gay tendencies of their own and are afraid some gay person will convert them , who knows.
People are people no matter what race,religion,orientation. Friends are friends no matter what. So lets all as people be friends and hold hands
hehe besides why did god make males with nipples?
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My one friend is Gay, everyone including his mom knows he is gay. (His mom and I discussed it before.) He has not told anybody yet, but when he does i will be there for him. I could give a rat ass if he is gay. He is a very touchy feely person, but as long as he still knows where the line is thats all that counts.
I will always support his views. Even if I do not agree with them.
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I wouldn't care...as long as they realized that i'm off limits (that applies to straight women now as well
) then it's all good--i can care less who you get your kicks from.
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[quote=Keeper of the Light™]I wouldn't care...as long as they realized that i'm off limits (that applies to straight women now as well
) then it's all good--i can care less who you get your kicks from.
have you nailed that hottie down permanently yet?
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falnfenix(gosh, i am a GIRL!) wrote:[quote=Keeper of the Light™]I wouldn't care...as long as they realized that i'm off limits (that applies to straight women now as well ) then it's all good--i can care less who you get your kicks from.
have you nailed that hottie down permanently yet?
hehe since you asked here i have to aswell.. what hottie?
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