KevinP (Stabby McShankyou) wrote:
and I'm NOT a pedo. everyone knows i've got a wheelchair fetish.
Tracer Bullet wrote:the problem is people do not know how to live within their means
they use credit cards and loans as a crutch to buy the latest things because the American Dream has become so materialistic, it has almost lost its meaning
I hate how a lot (and i do mean a lot) of people believe that the more/better stuff they have the happier they will be
in fact, i think that the most unhappy people are the ones with the most @!#$, because even if they make 6 figures, they spend all that money because they have it
this is why so many people with good incomes get shafted by their own stupidity, they live beyond their means
Robby002 wrote:I believe a lot of subprime borrowers are impulsive buyers. Buyers who buy things they do not need or do not have the money because they can not afford it.
They did a study and found out that they could easily rip them off and all they have to do is make the numbers look good and pretty on paper, lots of sweet talk and BINGO!
I’m not goinna paste anything this time.
My sister has decent credit, but she’s in deep debt by renting a 800 dollars per month 1 bedroom apartment, she drives a 2008 Mazda SUV, pays child support, has the latest cell phone, lots of clothes, and she works full time during the week, and part time every other weekend. She’s a party animal and is always short on cash.
To me that’s like a- “I gotta have it now” decease. And she’s well educated. She has a degree in accounting. She’s late on payments but they keep offering credit cards and she keeps taking them. That’s why I believe people who spend money like that is not their fault because they have a mental disorder that makes them buy things they do not need. They are taking advantage of them because there’s a new bankruptcy law, chapter 13, that states you have to pay everything back.
My ex wife,
Our marriage failed because she was always over spending our money. She filed bankruptcy after we got divorced. No matter how hard I tried to tell her not to get more credit cards, it went in one ear and out the other. There was no way to stop it, as if she was mentally sick wanting to keep getting more credit and over spending it.
Get rich quick programs,
They don’t work. My sister tried to get me in to one of those. And she was talking and adding numbers and trying to make the numbers look good. Sure, the number did look good but I asked her one question. “How do you know is going to work?” She did not know- she said that is going to work if you work hard on it.
She wanted me to pay a membership fee and other program fees and I told her NO because it was a scam. “But the numbers look good she replied” I said “Yes, the numbers look good, but is not going to work!! Simple, is not going to work because is all inside your head, those products are not sold in retail stores because they do not work.
My point is that impulsive buyers are more likely to experience spontaneous buying. And is not that people are dumb because my sister is very very smart when it comes to book and school. But when it comes to flat screen TVs, cars, cell phones, clothes, ect… her mind turns to STUPID and there are big corporations out there who just know how to rip this people off. They make their numbers look good but they do NOT and NEVER tell you the whole story behind their scam. Like I said, there are big corporations out there who know how to target subprime borrowers because subprime lenders know exactly how to rip them off. Fine prints are or can be very difficult to read. Even a person with a PHD can find it difficult to read that’s why sometimes you have to have an attorney to help you read fine prints.
That’s the America we are living in today
Very good examples of impulsive buyers are the children. Even if they have a billion toys at home that they don’t play with, they still want more and more toys and that’s the mentality parents are creating and feeding in to their minds. You gotta have it You gotta have it. TV commercials are all about "Buy me" and feeding their brain with usless adds. And when they get older and file bankruptcy, it won’t be their fault 100%
I believe the lenders are responsible for scamming impulsive borrowers. Yes it is!!
Joey (i can has boomstick) wrote:i read upto the word go.
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Knoxfire wrote:Well, in defense of the homeowners, house prices have gone up so insanely over the last couple of years that it's literally impossible to buy anything worth living in for under 100 grand. My mom bought her house for 23,000$ and in 5 years it's gone up to 80,000$
Maybe I'm a little unrealistic, but I've always lived in larg-ish victorian type houses (that used to be cheap) and I don't think I could tolerate living the rest of my life in a place only slightly bigger than a studio appartment. Right now I live in a tiny place but I pay almost nothing in rent, so I don't care. But if I had to pay 500$-600$ a month to live in a closet sized appartment I'd flip out. In 2001 I could have bought an entire SUMMER CAMP for about 150,000$ in the area where I live. The camp included one two storey main building the size of a hotel, 2 smaller buildings, a boat dock and about 8 acres of land.
Yes, some people get in over their heads, but dammit... no one wants to spend their lives living in a crapshack AND pay out the butt for it.
Joey (i can has boomstick) wrote:Knoxfire wrote:Well, in defense of the homeowners, house prices have gone up so insanely over the last couple of years that it's literally impossible to buy anything worth living in for under 100 grand. My mom bought her house for 23,000$ and in 5 years it's gone up to 80,000$
Maybe I'm a little unrealistic, but I've always lived in larg-ish victorian type houses (that used to be cheap) and I don't think I could tolerate living the rest of my life in a place only slightly bigger than a studio appartment. Right now I live in a tiny place but I pay almost nothing in rent, so I don't care. But if I had to pay 500$-600$ a month to live in a closet sized appartment I'd flip out. In 2001 I could have bought an entire SUMMER CAMP for about 150,000$ in the area where I live. The camp included one two storey main building the size of a hotel, 2 smaller buildings, a boat dock and about 8 acres of land.
Yes, some people get in over their heads, but dammit... no one wants to spend their lives living in a crapshack AND pay out the butt for it.
i agree.....but also really depends on the area/market. Like here in buffalo the housing prices are very respectable...but then again they have to be as work around here is impossible to find & less and less.
2.5 years ago i bought my house for ~$100k.........4 bed, 2 bath, 3 story with basement and detached 2.5 car garage. Prices around here havent changed much in recent years other than appraisal value going up with improvements